Note: this is a guest post that I wrote for datingcolombianas.com. Go and check Seth Covin’s blog, and read about all his tips for dating beautiful colombian ladies there!
My name is Pierre, and when I turned 45 years old, I discovered to my own surprise that it was actually easy to take women to bed. The realization came to me in 2015. My girlfriend had just sent me a breakup message over text, I was back on the dating market, and this time I was decided to learn dating as a skill. 8 months later, after I tweaked my dating template away from the conventional dinner-date, my success rate began skyrocketing.
Over time, this is the dating template I came up with. It has given me very good results, beyond all expectations. I would personally follow it each time I’m on a first date with a girl I like. It is the template I followed when I met my current girlfriend. It’s also the one I follow when I’m traveling and looking to spend a night or two with a girl. I have made it work with women from a wide variety of ages, culture, nationality, social background, and degree of conservative education.
So here is this dating template. It has clearly boosted my love life. It will work for you just as well. And it will certainly work for you when dating Colombian women!
Yours,
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Hey Sep,
Great article.
Tell me, do you use only one venue during your date (not counting your house)? Venu changes during date and picks up seems to be so important in many articles. However, I don’t like that too much so if in reality it will not reduce my odds of success I will gladly skip it and use only one venue again.
Also, do you also keep it 2 hours if you don’t plan to pull her one the first date?or do you make it shorter?
Happy Newyear by the way!
Happy new year Witcher!
The only case a second venue would make sense (in my opinion) is if you met her in a high energy place, noisy, crowded, such as a bar or a club, and especially if she’s with a group of friends. Then it makes sense to isolate her in a more quiet venue, more conducive to intimate discussion, away from her friends. And then bring her home from there.
But apart from that, it only complicate things. If you met her directly on a first date, you already have chosen a quiet venue conducive to intimate talk (like I advise). The first venue already took you about two hours. Going to a second venue from there would result in prolonging the overall date by, say, an extra one to two hours. Remember that you still want to bring her home after that, escalate, have sex, then maybe have some intimate time with her a little bit – count at least two hours for that.
The whole process takes about 4 – 5 hours if you have one venue, and at least 6 if you have two. The question then becomes, how much time do you have in front of you. In the end, it’s all about logistics! Personally I found that each time I tried two venues, it becomes too late to attempt a pull and escalation. That forces me to schedule a second date (with the risk that she might not show up).
Much better to keep it simple. One carefully chosen venue, then go home.
Hey Sep,
I hope you are safe with this virus thing. A default of going out I’am reviewing my seduction process and this article was one of them since I made this date my default one.
My biggest SP now is the end of the date. You gave a very detailed how-to when it comes to pulling her home, but I would love to see how you end the date when you aim for a second one.
My current modus-operandi is to do it the way BlackDragon advise it which is the following :
“We get out of the coffee shop and walk together (usually holding hands), at point of separation I give her a hug we part ways. ” Until now it gave me neither amazing nor horrible results. But I would love to how you do it in your usual smooth and practical ways.
This until my logistics get better again, get my own place and go for the 1st date pull again!
Thanks
Interestingly I found it easier to get the second date more consistently, after I became good at pulling my girl to bed on date 1. I suppose that the outcome independence and the confidence you gain from being able to do this, helps you in your dating in general.
You will need the following ingredients in your first date:
* giving a sexual vibe – so she knows this is not platonic friends;
* some sexual tension, but not too much;
* not giving yourself completely away – so she’s still sort of guessing
then what you need is to leave her wanting for more. The best way is to interrupt the date a little early. She will want to see you again!
I hope that helps!
PS. And also, as part as “not giving yourself away”, it is best to avoid kissing for now.