Your mindset on a date, i.e. the beliefs about dating you hold for true, play a big role in shaping the outcome of the date. Today I want to illustrate this by depicting two fictive dates involving two opposite mindsets, and their respective outcomes. The author of these lines speaks of personal experience, having embraced,… Read More »
In my post “what women want romantically”, I have written that a strong instinct drives women towards the sexy men at the top of the Sexual Pyramid. But does that make complete sense? On the one hand, each of us have met a guy who seemed to be extremely successful with women. But on the… Read More »
In my post “What women want romantically”, I have argued that, because of Evolutionary needs, the women of this planet are, almost universally, attracted by some masculine archetype figure that I have called the “Sexy Guy”: in a nutshell, a man communicating sexual confidence and aptitudes to survive in the hostile prehistoric environment (leadership, aggressiveness,… Read More »
“It is going so fast! I don’t know if I am ready for this!” My friend was puzzled. They had seen each others a few times already, and it had been a great start… but now he was taken aback by this unexpected reaction of hers. And the more he gave her reassurances, the more… Read More »
The topic of Seduction is one that interests me most, and indeed I have many more posts planned on the subject. I believe that learning about it, in the past few years, has changed my life for good. However, it occurs to me that in the current context (especially in the West) Seduction is viewed… Read More »
Let me be absolutely clear: for the first 45 years of my life, I didn’t understand what women want, romantically. Yes, I did have a few girlfriends before my marriage. But without the right map to reading women, it was of course impossible to be really successful at dating, and even less at managing a… Read More »
The date I describe on today’s post happened nearly five years after the events of my last post on the topic. The first positive takeaway is, you definitely *can* teach yourself how to become good at seduction. I did. So can you. This post shows how easy your date becomes when you successfully manage to… Read More »
Let’s get started with my very first post here on the fascinating topic of Women and dating. In this post I describe a failed date that took place in late 2011. As we will see, the date left me confused and frustrated and scratching my head. In the second part of the article, I apply… Read More »