Tag Archives: mindset

Your best chance is on the first date

Guest Post to GirlsChase.com Your best chance is on the first date… Here it is finally! Below is an excerpt of my first Guest Post to GirlsChase.com. You can read the full post here. And if you are not already doing so, make sure to subscribe to GirlsChase which is one of the best resources… Read More »

How your mindset on a date affects its outcome

Your mindset on a date, i.e. the beliefs about dating you hold for true, play a big role in shaping the outcome of the date. Today I want to illustrate this by depicting two fictive dates involving two opposite mindsets, and their respective outcomes. The author of these lines speaks of personal experience, having embraced,… Read More »

The Sexual Pyramid

In my post “What women want romantically”, I have argued that, because of Evolutionary needs, the women of this planet are, almost universally, attracted by some masculine archetype figure that I have called the “Sexy Guy”: in a nutshell, a man communicating sexual confidence and aptitudes to survive in the hostile prehistoric environment (leadership, aggressiveness,… Read More »

What women want romantically

Let me be absolutely clear: for the first 45 years of my life, I didn’t understand what women want, romantically. Yes, I did have a few girlfriends before my marriage. But without the right map to reading women, it was of course impossible to be really successful at dating, and even less at managing a… Read More »